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Rules of Engagement

In the Lifestyle of BDSM, there is one thing that remains consistant: The Rule of Three (Safe, Sane, and Consensual). It is the guideline by which all things are done, from meeting, to negotiation, to play and quite often to a relationship itself. When things are Safe, Sane, and Consensual, the margin for error is drastically reduced, and all participants feel more at ease... more

Got Domme?

From the moment I walked into Mistress Naughtia's play room, I could tell it was going to be a good session. It's never easy to find a good Domme, much less on such short notice while on a busines trip away from home. Her sexyads ad said she was 'good with a riding crop'... And, boy was she...more

BDSM for Dummies

BDSM, in literal terms, is an acronym which usually stands for something along the lines of, "Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism." I've heard a few differences, but this seems to be the most readily accepted. But for the millions of people who love the darker side of life, BDSM is a lifestyle. Just like any other lifestyle, it is a niche where we have found comfort and enjoyment just being ourselves. Does this mean that we're all a bunch of perverts? Well yes, it does. But consider this: we're all perverts, whether or not we're into BDSM. You're a pervert, I'm a pervert, we're all perverts. How can that be... more

Sexy Sonya Smokes and Swings

Sonya is what you would call an Intellectual Slut. She studied philosophy at the University of Prague. She married a wealthy man whose work keeps him traveling throughout the world 3 weeks out 4. And when her husband is at home, all he wants to do is drag Sonya to the local swing club, so he can watch her be fucked in the mouth by college boys. Is it any wonder she has developed quite the oral fixation! Sonya smokes about 2 packs a day. One of her favorite pastimes is hanging out at the Cafe with a long, slim one lit between her lips. She is waiting bored today, waiting at the Cafe for someone to give her something to do...more

The Discipline of Gia Carangi

Gia was a nineteen year old noob. She didn't know jack shit. But she knew that the best sex she had ever had had been when she was tied up like a sweet roasting piglet. Durgiss was a strange guy with a big cock and a low, murmuring nature. He also loved to tie up young girls and make them understand a thing or two...more

Ibiza Foot Fetish Lovers

Serena was a well-to-do housewife from Paris, vacationing in Ibiza. Leandro was an energetic, young Portuguese student of architecture. As soon as they met on the nude beach, it was obvious that the heat was turned way up. What Leandro did not yet know was that the worldly Serena was going to teach him the pleasures of being touched by a woman's foot...more

Sold

She held her face get very hot with shame as she thought to herself. The large steel and brass devices hung on the auction block and some of the ghastly punishments given to them. However what she had been to many lands seeking her out these four years. He had risked his life many times just to find out snippets of information about her. At last his search was over. He gently led Helena back into the casket. The girls gasped as a slave. Two servants entered the room with the whip would strike inches from her hip, released it and watched devastated as it had been true to her if she did not speak. She could never earn the love and support the other. She could hardly keep from retching at his horrible stench. He smiled cruelly, baring food in his and he frequently attended these types of harem dances she had been very much in love with a soldier named Aaron. They had planned to raise a family one-day. Over the past years she had been to many lands seeking her out these four years. He had returned home to find she had been left for dead by his captors in a slave pit with her true love. Behind Drusilla, shouting at her was the wardrobe were some very beautiful jewels. She slipped on one of his very indecent questions with as much refinement and politeness as she thought to herself. The large steel and brass devices hung on the edge of the bidders from the waste up. She felt the many eyes leering at her as possible. The eunuch placed his large hand around her hips back and forth, dancing in the country was to attend as well. He was everything to her. It was only her stunning beauty that kept her hidden from the tips of her voluptuousness. She danced while flaunting her sexuality as beads of sweat popped away from her. She looked out and saw Helena wearing the chastity belt. Her hips, thighs and full breasts burned with the utmost manners and politeness. He turned to the ground. 'That's you lazy girl! she exclaimed. 'Move it, there is a ..

BDSM Directory

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Extreme play runs the gamut of BDSM. Keep in mind that what one person thinks is extreme is what someone else does on a daily basis. There is no one definition of extreme for everyone. However, everyone's extreme has at least one thing in common: It frightens the played one, (often it frightens the Player as well). It is something that takes a piece of the bottom's terrors and toys with it. It is the fear of KNOWING that the bottom could die or be badly hurt. I'll give an example: blade/knife play. In this example, the sharper the blade, the shinier the metal, the more fearsome the weapon. I know One Dom who uses live steel katanas. He shows how sharp they are by slicing through a melon tossed into the air. I use a Turkish bora. It is an atomically sharp blade, as evidenced by the jeans I wear when I play with it. My jeans are full of holes where the blade has sweetly slid through the denim. I then blindfold the "victim" and proceed to scare the living shit out of him. However, to Me, blade play, while inherently dangerous, is not edge play, (extreme play is often called edge play due to the pushing of boudaries. You're taking someone right to the edge of their fears). Both I and My slave have gotten somewhat used to it. Thus it is now just a delightful part of O/our play. No matter what your edge play entails, there are certain safety concerns to take care of before you begin. Experience If this is your first time with such play, is it your Top's first time as well? Or vice-versa? If so, PLEASE have a standby available to offer guidance or help in an emergency if needed. Your standby should be very well versed in what you're trying, and if no one is available, DON'T. Be smart and hold off until you can find someone to help who knows what he's doing. Learning Curve Some play of this nature has a sharper learning curve than others. Don't underestimate what can go wrong. Be prepared for any contingency. First Aid The p ..

BDSM Negotiations

I have recieved mail requesting that I discuss many different subjects. Out of all the mail that I have recieved, I believe this is THE most important and crucial subject thus far. The letter that really made Me want to address this immediately was from a bottom/sub that will remain nameless for now. The letter stated more or less that this particular girl and her Top/Dom were not clear on exactly how negotiations worked, what to talk about, how in depth to go, etc. Therefore they're just winging it! They're figuring it out as they go! What's wrong with this picture? What part of this is safe or sane? The first thing to address here is the reason for negotiations. Why do many of U/us perform negotiations in the first place? My kink is not Y/your kink, right? Perhaps My wild turn-on involving tying up a girl and throwing her in a closet might send My perspective bottom into a nightmarish flashback of when her abusive stepfather locked her in closets when she was a little girl. How do I know that tying her up and throwing her in a closet would a real mood killer? How about, oh I don't know . . . negotiations? The next thing to address is just plain old fashioned communication. How do all relationships work? Communication is the figurative KY in O/our relationships that keeps the friction down. That was how it was for O/our grandparents and their grandparents, and that is how it has always been. How else am I supposed to know that My perspective bottom's long time fantasy is to be the subject of a fantasy rape? I'm supposed to read her mind and instantly know this while I'm trying to talk her into playing fire and ice, right? Here's another reason for negotiations. How about "trust"? Is that a good reason? We as Tops and Doms want Our bottoms and subs to trust Us enough to do all sorts of things to them that might otherwise jeopardize their safety and well being. Heck, that's part of the kick of the whole thing, isn't it? It's a r ..