In the Lifestyle of BDSM, there is one thing that remains consistant: The Rule of Three (Safe, Sane, and Consensual). It is the guideline by which all things are done, from meeting, to negotiation, to play and quite often to a relationship itself. When things are Safe, Sane, and Consensual, the margin for error is drastically reduced, and all participants feel more at ease... more

From the moment I walked into Mistress Naughtia's play room, I could tell it was going to be a good session. It's never easy to find a good Domme, much less on such short notice while on a busines trip away from home. Her sexyads ad said she was 'good with a riding crop'... And, boy was she...more

BDSM, in literal terms, is an acronym which usually stands for something along the lines of, "Bondage, Domination, Sado-Masochism." I've heard a few differences, but this seems to be the most readily accepted. But for the millions of people who love the darker side of life, BDSM is a lifestyle. Just like any other lifestyle, it is a niche where we have found comfort and enjoyment just being ourselves. Does this mean that we're all a bunch of perverts? Well yes, it does. But consider this: we're all perverts, whether or not we're into BDSM. You're a pervert, I'm a pervert, we're all perverts. How can that be... more